If you think about it the attachment test where mom leaves the room and comes back after a while is mostly about child exploring and feeling uncomfortable, afterwards when mom comes back, they are testing the recovery, how the child goes to the safe haven, the secure part to get her cup of reassurance filled and then continues exploration. 

The moments that she’s exploring something and then looks at me to connect, recharge and go back to her exploration. 

About my work, I wanna be sure how much of it is the feeling of ok contributing something meaningful. How much of it is that I don’t care about that much.